"You need to git up, git out, and git something. Don't let the days of your life pass by. You need to git up, git out, and git something. How will you make it if you never even try?"


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‘I Really Hope a Lot of Men Read It’: Sohaila Abdulali on How We Talk About Rape

This blog post spoke so much on hope for those who have been broken by traumatic life experiences and also how to talk about and through those experiences. It may not be a theological topic but it definitely has God’s fingerprint on it.

Here is a quote that stuck out to me:

"Righteous anger is good, but there’s no use getting consumed by it and getting bitter. I was afraid when I sat down to interview people for this book that it would put me into a very dark place, because all the rape survivors I’d talked to before were from years ago when I worked at the rape counseling center [in Boston]. They were all in crisis; that’s why they called. So I imagined I’d go through that again, but the people I talked to for the book are all people who have come through it. It was actually really inspirational to talk to them and see how they survived."

Please read this article and let it speak to a hard subject we need to be vocal about and against.


Laura Barcella | Longreads | November 2018 | 12 minutes (3,191 words)

In a 2015 documentary called “India’s Daughter,” one of Jyoti Singh Pandey’s rapists, Mukesh Singh, gave a disturbing jail-cell interview in which he placed the blame for his crime squarely on his dead victim. “A decent girl won’t roam around at 9 o’clock at night. A girl is far more responsible for rape than a boy,” he said.

Singh’s quote is despicable, but it neatly summarizes many of the internalized myths that women all over the world walk around with each day: that women have a say in whether we end up brutalized. That we can twist our own fate by making simple choices like staying home at night, or not wearing skirts, or abstaining from drinking. It helps rapists rationalize their actions, and it makes women feel like we retain a semblance of control over what happens…

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